Average dating length
Imagine you’re on the best date of your life with the person you suspect is The One.
The sexual chemistry is palpable, but you’re looking for a long-term thing — not just a hookup.
When I give talks on how to make wise decisions about love relationships, the burning question that someone almost always asks is, “How long do I have to wait?
” The phrasing of this question illustrates the fact that waiting can feel like working against the tide of biology and the romantic rush of falling in love and making it official.
So, in the realm to waiting a sufficient length of time before marrying, are you willing to wait for an endless supply of lovely marshmallows, or do you want to bite down, right now, on something that resembles a marshmallow but may well turn into a bag of pus once you’ve committed?If you keep these discussions light and non-confrontational, you’ll soon know where you stand, and if you’re not happy with their stance, you can decide early on whether it’s something you want to proceed with.You don’t want to appear possessive and jealous just weeks into meeting someone – save that for later, when you can check their phone while they’re in the shower (just kidding).Some marital experts would argue that two years is a good amount of time to wait.If you are looking for a general rule of thumb, then two years is probably a good length of time for most people, but I don’t personally favor any hard-and-fast rule about how long a courtship should be.
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Shelby, 20, Texas Relationship length: 1.5 years Waited: a little less than two weeks"We went on a few dates (after meeting on Tinder) and just really hit it off. I wish I was less nervous the first time we had sex.