Advice dating japanese man
Showing affection or PDA (Public Display of Affection)- Holding hands, hugging or cuddling is not that allowed in the public eye. But unfortunately in Japan if you are in a public place or at least there’s a presence of someone else, flashing your affection is a big no no!
Way back when we were still in the Philippines I would usually hold his hand or cling around his arm but one day when we were already in Japan I accidentally reached his hand to hold and all of a sudden he got annoyed and reminded me that it is not nice to do it in public in Japan. There’s nothing wrong about working hard but everything is only good in moderation.
Have you ever wondered what to expect when dating a Japanese guy?
Well, to start with, I am not Japanese nor grew up in Japan, so I totally had zero idea about their culture, characteristics and traits.
Unlike in the West, in Japan, you are the one who should take the first step.
Thus you may find your male Japanese friend behaving with some formality even in social or in casual settings.
This is not so much because he is not interested in you but because it is his way of treating a lady, or any acquaintance for that matter with respect.
However, regardless of that, me and my Japanese boyfriend have been together for a long time now, so, I will share some of the things that I discovered with my personal experience in dating a Japanese.
As we all know intercultural relationship can face a lot of challenges and issues.